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Jun 20, 2025
Gender and diversity


“I am just speaking for myself and explaining things about my own life.”

– Andred Han, content creator

After coming out as gay in 2015, Andred Han had a traumatic experience with his father, who tried to force him to renounce his sexual orientation.

This inspired him to post snippets of his life online on Douyin, where he has amassed a following of 40,000. “I am just speaking for myself and explaining things about my own life,” he said from his home in New York, where he has temporarily settled.

Chinese social media platforms such as Bilibili, RedNote or Douyin have allowed LGBT content creators like Han to express themselves in a country where same-sex marriage is not officially recognised. But this space is now shrinking, following a wider trend of marginalisation of the LGBT community in China.

“Douyin, Bilibili, and RedNote all have censorship. RedNote is the most strict. You can't mention things like sensitive words. There are so many sensitive words that can trigger the alarm if you are not careful,” Han said.

Up until recently, homosexuality was considered a sexual disorder by Chinese authorities. But after 2001, when homosexuality was taken off the list, there was a certain wind of liberty on official channels.

Once the most populous country on Earth, China now faces a demographic decline, as the government has enacted several policies to stem the tide.

On the one hand, this requires the showcasing of family values, including traditional masculinity, on official media, as well as handing out cash for newlywed couples and subsidies for families with children. But on the other hand, this has led to the LGBT community facing censorship and decreased visibility.

“The government has their way – that they want the country to develop and certain values that it wants to promote. And this is not one of the values that, at this stage, they feel comfortable with,” said Ashley Dudarenok, the founder of digital consultancy firm ChoZan. “It has become more and more challenging in official media since about 2021,” she added.

In 2021, the Chinese government banned the appearance of “effeminate men”, or “sissy men”, on official media. Several LGBTQ social channels with massive followings on WeChat and other social media have since closed down.

In this ever-shrinking space, while Han continues to post online, he holds little hope of China becoming more inclusive towards the LGBTQ community.

“There was a time when I really wanted to express something about equal rights,” Han lamented. “Now I feel there is no hope, or just a very slim feeling of hope.”

Signing off,
Ayman Ragab
Associate Producer

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